Since beginning the Nikki’s Magic Wand journey, I have gotten a lot of questions. The one that I have gotten the most is, “When are you going on Sharktank?” I used to smile and say, “Soon, I hope.” Back then, I was addicted to the show like so many others. I’d get my notebook out and take notes the entire time, (much like my Granny does when she watches Dr. Oz.). I was ALL IN and quite often envisioned myself on the show. I had a conversation with a local woman who appeared on there and picked her brain for hints and tips. I was gearing up for my Sharktank debut. I even submitted an application to appear on the show. But then, a few things happened….
First, the application came back because the address was wrong online.
Then, Sharktank actually started making me feel badly about myself. Hearing stories about how people made $500,000 in 3 months, while investing $20 and spending $0 on marketing began to piss me off. I started to feel like I was ill equipped for this entrepreneurial life. I started to feel like everyone was smarter than I was. I started to feel that if I went on that show, I’d be dead in the water (pun totally intended).
I’ve made the conscious effort in my professional and personal life to give up ALL things that negatively affect my self esteem. I KNOW (cuz ya’ll tell me :)) that I’m making positive impacts and I don’t need to watch a show of what seems to be miracle workers who have sold their goods to 15 kabillion people before even coming on the show with no investment, while I’ve invested A LOT and quite frankly, am not super close to 15 million, never mind kabillion.
My point is this. I’m a force. I don’t need Sharktank to validate me. My journey is my own and I’m pleased with the way it is going. Maybe I’m hating, I’ll own that, but I’ll also say that I don’t know what kinds of connections they’ve been able to leverage while I’m selling Wands out of my truck and living room. I’m proud of my journey. I’m thankful for my supporters and happy with my trajectory.
Plus, many folks who appear on “The Tank” want to get on QVC and guess what? Been there, done that. :):)
My message is only this. Don’t waste your time comparing yourself to someone else because YOU are amazing all on your own and their walk is not yours. This slow and steady climb I’ve got rocking is paying off in establishing my brand and letting people see what the work looks like close up. Chart your own course and you will win. I promise.
As always, thanks for reading.